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1、Book One,Unit 2,Book One,Content,Warming-up,Reading,Writing,Text A,Text B,Book One,Warming-up,Book One,Watch this talk show program and discuss in what ways the friendships between mens friendship and womens are different.,Book One,1. Questions: 1) Who do you prefer to chat with, people of your own
2、gender or the opposite gender? Is your best friend of your own gender? 2) Do you have any difficulty in communicating with people of the opposite gender? 3) Have you noticed any similarities or differences between your ways of communicating with your boy friends and girl friends? 2. Each group appoi
3、nt one representative to give a presentation about the groups discussion.,Group discussion,Book One,WHY IS IT SO HARD FOR MEN AND WOMEN TO TALK TO EACH OTHER? Deborah Tannen,Book One,ReadingText A,Text Study,Main Idea & Structure,Sentence Analysis,Language Points,Book One,Main Idea and Structure,Fir
4、st reading: Scan the text and try to catch the main idea. The following words are for your reference to organize the idea: Communication crisis,in public, at home, childhood socializtion, norms, expectation, cross-cultural communication, accept, understand,Second reading: read the passage again and
5、try to identify the structure of this passage.,For your reference,For your reference,Book One,This article focuses on the communication crisis in marriage, and analyze the reasons behind it. It finds that due to the difference in childhood socializtion men and women have different interactive norms
6、and expectation. And these difference make male-female talk like cross-cultural communication. To solve this problem, both men and women need to accept the difference and try to understand each other.,Main Idea,Book One,Structure,A small episode of the crisis,Para. 6-18,The sound of silence,Main ide
7、a: Men tend to talk More in public situations than at home. Lack of communication has become a crisis in marriage.,Main idea: Male-female communication is like cross-cultural communication. Men and women have different way of communication , conversation habits and dexpectation of good commuincation
8、.,Main idea: The communication problems require a new conceptual framework about the role of talking in marriage. Women need to accept the difference and understand their hunsbands.,Linguistic battle between men and women,Para. 19-22,Para. 1-5,Book One,Text Study,Book One,1 I was addressing a small
9、gathering in a suburban Virginia living rooma womens group that had invited men to join them. Throughout the evening, one man had been particularly talkative, frequently offering ideas and anecdotes, while his wife sat silently beside him on the couch. Toward the end of the evening, I commented that
10、 women frequently complain that their husbands dont talk to them. This man quickly concurred. He gestured toward his wife and said, “Shes the talker in our family.” The room burst into laughter; the man looked puzzled and hurt. “Its true,” he explained. “When I come home from work I have nothing to
11、say. If she didnt keep the conversation going, wed spend the whole evening in silence.” 2 This episode crystallizes the irony that although American men tend to talk more than women in public situations, they often talk less at home. And this pattern is wreaking havoc with marriage.,Book One,Paras.3
12、-5,3 Sociologist Catherine Kohier Riessman, who reports in her new book Divorce Talk that most of the women she interviewedbut only a few of the mengave lack of communication as the reason for their divorces. 4 In my own research, complaints from women about their husbands most often focused not on
13、tangible inequities such as having given up the chance for a career to accompany a husband to his, or doing far more than their share of daily life. Instead, they focused on communication: “He doesnt listen to me,” “He doesnt talk to me.” I found that most wives want their husbands to be, first and
14、foremost, conversational partners, but few husbands share this expectation of their wives. 5 In short, the image that best represents the current crisis is the stereotypical cartoon scene of a man sitting at the breakfast table with a newspaper held up in front of his face, while a woman glares at t
15、he back of it, wanting to talk.,Book One,Paras.6-8,Linguistic Battle Between Men and Women 6 How can women and men have such different impressions of communication in marriage? Why is there a widespread imbalance in their interests and expectations? 7 In the April 1990 issue of American Psychologist
16、, Stanford Universitys Eleanor Maccoby reports the results of her own and others research showing that childrens development is most influenced by the social structure of peer interactions. Boys and girls tend to play with children of their own gender, and their sex-separate groups have different or
17、ganizational structures and interactive norms. 8 I believe these systematic differences in childhood socialization make talk between women and men like cross-cultural communication. My research on mens and womens conversations uncovered patterns similar to those described for childrens groups.,Book
18、One,Paras.9-11,9 For women, as for girls, intimacy is the fabric of relationships, and talk is the thread from which it is woven. Little girls create and maintain friendships by exchanging secrets; similarly, women regard conversation as the cornerstone of friendship. So a woman expects her husband
19、to be a new and improved version of a best friend. What is important is not the individual subjects that are discussed but the sense of closeness, of a life shared, that emerges when people tell their thoughts, feelings, and impressions. 10 Bonds between boys can be as intense as girls, but they are
20、 based less on talking, more on doing things together. Since they dont assume talk is the cement that binds a relationship, men dont know what kind of talk women want, and they dont miss it when it isnt there. 11 Boys groups are larger, more inclusive, and more hierarchical, so boys must struggle to
21、 avoid the subordinate position in the group. This may play a role in womens complaints that men dont listen to them.,Book One,Para.12,12 Often when women tell men, “You arent listening,” and the men protest “I am”, the men are right. The impression of not listening results from misalignments in the
22、 mechanics of conversation. This misalignment begins as soon as a man and a woman take physical positions. When I studied videotapes made by psychologist Bruce Dorval of children and adults talking to their same-sex best friends, I found at every age, the girls and women faced each other directly, t
23、heir eyes anchored on each others faces. At every age, the boys and men sat at angles to each other and looked elsewhere in the room, periodically glancing at each other. But the tendency of men to face away can give women the impression they arent listening even when they are. A young woman in coll
24、ege was frustrated: whenever she told her boyfriend she wanted to talk to him, he would lie down on the floor, close his eyes, and put his arm over his face. This signaled to her, “Hes taking a nap.” But he insisted he was listening extra hard. Normally, he looks around the room, so he is easily dis
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