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1、顏耀松先生 註冊社工,從九型人格檢視家長管教模式,自我反思:,那些親子活動最令你感到快樂?又子女那些行為會令你感到害怕及厭惡?為甚麼? 你會最著意培養子女那些品德及技能?為甚麼? 子女會經常讚賞你那些優點? 子女會經常提醒你要改善的地方是甚麼? 五. 如果子女 擁有魔法,可以改變你,他會 希望你有怎樣的改變?為甚麼?,1 Perfectionist 完美主義者,2 Giver 給予者,3 Performer 表演者,4 Romantic 浪漫主義者,8 Protector 保護者,9 Mediator 調停者,5 Observer 觀察者,6 Loyal Skeptic 忠誠者,7 Epicu
2、re 享受者,The Enneagram,1 The Perfectionist 完美主義者,行為動機: 做事力求正確完美,有原則,有標準,常有自我批判並要求他人自己標準去做事情的傾向,理性正直,刻意求恭,時常壓抑自己人性中不理性的一面,怒而不宣 Motivated by the need to live life the right way improve yourself and others, and avoid anger 潛在恐懼: 受自己良心責備或遭他人譴責 Basic Fear: Of being condemned 潛在渴望: 事事力求完美 Basic Desire: To b
3、e right,1 The Perfectionist 完美主義者,類型的正面質數: 有道德 ;可信賴;公平合理 ;誠實;整齊 ;自律,Strength / At their Best: Ethical; Reliable; Fair; Honest; Orderly ; Self-disciplined,1 The Perfectionist 完美主義者,類型的負面質數: 批評性;欠缺彈性;挑剔別人;過於嚴厲嚴肅;固執地強迫他人,Shortcoming / At their Worst: Judgmental; Inflexible; Critical others; Overly seri
4、ous; Obsessive-compulsive,2 The Giver 給予者,行為動機: 渴望被愛, 受人感激和認同, 他們善解人意, 有同情心, 熱情地去滿足他人需要而又希望不被察覺. Motivated by the need to be loved and appreciated ,to express your positive feelings towards others, and to avoid being seen as needy. 潛在恐懼: 害怕孤獨和不被喜愛 Basic Fear: Of being unloved and unwanted for themse
5、lves alone. 潛在渴望: 被人關懷, 愛護. Basic Desire: To be loved,2 The Giver 給予者,類型的正面質數: 有愛心;照顧;慷慨;熱情;關心別人感受,Strength / At their Best: Loving; Caring; Generous; Enthusiastic; Tuned in to how people feel,2 The Giver 給予者,類型的負面質數: 操控別人;佔有慾強;歇斯底里;過份迎合別人;,Shortcoming / At their Worst: Manipulative; Possessive ; Hy
6、sterical; Overly accommodating,3 The Performer 表演者,行為動機: 渴望事業有成就, 以目標為主導, 重視自我形象, 希望被人肯定, 受人注意和羨慕, 他們能在每一刻中都適當地表現出該有的反應, 善於掌握每個機會, 務求達到成功. Motivated by the need to be productive, to achieve success and to avoid failure. 潛在恐懼: 被人否定, 自己的能力未為他人賞識 Basic Fear: Of being rejected. 潛在渴望: 自己的能力受他人賞識和認同 Basic
7、 Desire: To be accepted.,類型的正面質數: 自信;勤奮;有效率;活力充沛;實幹,Strength / At their Best: Confident; Industrious; Efficient; Energetic; Practical,3 The Performer 表演者,類型的負面質數: 自戀自我陶醉;自負炫耀性;自視過高; 報復心強;過份競爭性,Shortcoming / At their Worst: Narcissistic; Pretentious; Vain; Vindictive; Overly competitive,3 The Perform
8、er 表演者,4 The Romantic 浪漫主義者,行為動機: 渴望自我瞭解和他們的內心感受被人認同, 喜歡我行我素, 不媚俗, 感情豐富, 思想浪漫有創意, 擁有敏銳的觸覺和審美眼光. Motivated by the need to understand your feelings and to be understood, to search for the meaning of life, and to avoid being ordinary. 潛在恐懼: 生命中仍有不足之處, 情感世界仍有缺陷. Basic Fear: Of being defective or inadequ
9、ate in some way 潛在渴望: 能更深入的自我瞭解, 看透人生. Basic Desire: To understand themselves.,類型的正面質數: 溫和溫暖;有同情心;有內省能力;有創意;優雅,Strength / At their Best: Warm; Compassionate; Introspective; Creative; Refined,4 The Romantic 浪漫主義者,類型的負面質數: 失落/抑鬱;自我意識過強;說教;固執;情緒化,Shortcoming / At their Worst: Depressed; Self-conscious;
10、 Moralistic; Stubborn; Moody,4 The Romantic 浪漫主義者,5 The Observer 觀察者,行為動機: 渴望比人知得多, 懂得快, 喜歡運用自己的智慧和理論去駕馭他人, 他們冷靜,機智,分析力強, 好學不倦, 善於理性,有邏輯地去處理問題並將情感抽離, 不喜歡自己的空間受到騷擾. Motivated by the need to know everything and understand the universe, to be self-sufficient and left alone, and to avoid not having the
11、answer or looking foolish. 潛在恐懼: 被人取締和駕馭, 對身邊事物感到無知,束手無策. Basic Fear: Of being threatened or overwhelmed by another 潛在渴望: 洞悉天下事. Basic Desire: To understand the world around them.,類型的正面質數: 分析力強;客觀;觀察敏銳善於理解 ; 堅持鍥而不捨,Strength / At their Best: Analytical ; Objective; Perceptive; Persevering,5 The Obser
12、ver 觀察者,類型的負面質數: 持才傲物;吝惜小氣;挑剔別人;負面,Shortcoming / At their Worst: Intellectually arrogant; Stingy; Critical of others; Negative,5 The Observer 觀察者,6 The Loyal Skeptic 忠誠者,行為動機 : 渴望受到保護和關懷, 為人忠心耿耿, 但多疑過慮, 怕出風頭, 怕生事端, 怕自己力不從心, 怕人虛偽, 口是心非,怕事與願違. Motivated by the need to receive approval, to feel taken c
13、are of and to avoid being seen as rebellious. 潛在恐懼: 被遺棄和受到孤立對人和事缺乏安全感. Basic Fear: Of being abandoned and alone. 潛在渴望: 感到安定和受保護. Basic Desire: To have security.,類型的正面質數: 忠誠;照顧;溫和溫暖;風趣幽默;負責任,Strength / At their Best: Loyal ; Caring ; Warm; Witty; Responsible,6 The Loyal Skeptic 忠誠者,類型的負面質數: 過於警覺 ;不可理
14、喻;偏執多疑;反抗性;操控,Shortcoming / At their Worst: Hypervigilant; Unpredicatable; Judgmental; Paranoid; Rigid; Controlling,6 The Loyal Skeptic 忠誠者,7 The Epicure 享受者,行為動機: 活潑開朗,精力充沛, 興趣廣泛, 時常想辦法去滿足自己想要的,愛玩, 貪新鮮而怕作承諾, 渴望擁有更多, 傾向逃避煩惱, 痛苦和焦慮. Motivated by the need to be happy and plan fun things, to contribute
15、 to the world, and to avoid suffering and pain. 潛在恐懼: 自己的時間和空間被人佔有, 受人制肘. Basic Fear: Of being deprived 潛在渴望: 能開開心心, 無拘無束地去尋樂趣. Basic Desire: To be happy.,類型的正面質數: 富想像力;具生產力;熱情;吸引;好奇求知慾強,Strength / At their Best: Imaginative; Productive; Enthusiastic; Charming; Curious,7 The Epicure 享受者,類型的負面質數: 自戀;
16、衝動;不集中;反叛;缺乏規律,Shortcoming / At their Worst: Narcissistic; Impulsive; Unfocused; Rebellious; Undisciplined,7 The Epicure 享受者,8 The Protector 保護者,行為動機: 渴望在社會上與人群中有作為, 並擔當他們的領導者, 他們個性衝動, 權威自信, 有正義感, 自強不息, 愛出風頭, 喜歡替他人作主和發施號令, 但怕被人發現自己弱小的一面, 不屈服於人, 不喜歡被人嘲笑和認低威. Motivated by the need to be self-reliant a
17、nd strong, to make an impact on the world, and to avoid being weak. 潛在恐懼: 被人支配和指揮. Basic Fear: Of submitting to other. 潛在渴望: 自己當家作主. Basic Desire: To be self-reliant.,類型的正面質數: 權威可靠;不拘小節;保護別人 ;忠誠;自信,Strength / At their Best: Authoritative; Earthy; Protective; Loyal; Self-confident,8 The Protector 保護者
18、,類型的負面質數: 操控;反叛;專橫;自我中心;具攻擊性,Shortcoming / At their Worst: Controlling; Rebellious; Domineering; Self-centered; aggressive,8 The Protector 保護者,9 The Mediator 調停者,行為動機: 渴望人人能和平共處,怕引起衝突,怕得失別人,怕左右為難,他們不爭名利逐利,性格溫順,與世無爭,愛好大自然,不好出位,寫意隨和,但往往給予人一種懶洋洋,沒有個性,慢條斯理和蠻不住在乎的錯覺 Motivated by the need to keep the peac
19、e, merge with other and avoid conflict. 潛在恐懼: 與人群疏離 Basic Fear: Of separation from the other 潛在渴望: 與人和平共存並接納他存在. Basic Desire: To find union with the other.,類型的正面質數: 仁慈;和平;慷慨;易與人有共鳴;有耐性,Strength / At their Best: Pleasant; Peaceful; Generous; empathic; Patient,9 The Mediator 調停者,類型的負面質數: 處身事外;健忘;無動於衷;被動攻擊性;不夠自我肯定,Shortcoming / At their Worst: Spaced-out; Forgetful; Apathetic; Passive-aggressive; unassertive,9 The Mediator 調停者,
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