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1、The Feeling of Being Important 【Abstract】 In our daily life, there are various pursuits we are chasing for. Some are basic and elementary; some are difficult and advanced. For we human beings, the feeling of being important is an advanced and prolong thing we want to possess. But all kind of people
2、cannot think totally alike. Not all will think the positive way to fulfill their value, to reach their destination. They adopt different ways to achieve what they wish to be.【Key Words】 feeling of importance; motivations; adoptive ways; sincere appreciationsThe feeling of being importantI. The few t
3、hings that we do wish, we crave with an insistence that will not be denied.I1. Health and the preservation of life.I2. Money and the things money will buy.I3. Life in the hereafter.I4. The well-being of our children.I5. A feeling of importanceII. Why do people desire the feeling of being important;
4、the motivations.III. How do we get a feeling of importance?III1. Historical famous persons.III2. The ways around us.III3. Why do they use insanity to arouse peoples attention?IV. Honest and sincere appreciation is the basic element of self-important.I. IntroductionHave you think about what the highe
5、st layer of self-value is? As for us, what will be the most important thing?After researches, we have gradually found that there are seven wishes which we crave with an insistence that will not be denied. Some of the things most people want include: health and the preservation of life, food, sleep,
6、money and the things money will buy, life in the hereafter, sexual gratification, the well-being of our families, and a feeling of importance. With every layer gratified, they may come up with newer and upper requirements. Almost all these wants are usually fulfilled, all except one. That is what Im
7、 going to elaborate-the“desire to be important.”John Dewey, one of Americans most profound philosophers, phrased that the deepest urge in human nature is “The desire to be important”. Lincoln once begin a letter saying,“Everyone likes a compliment.” William James said,“The deepest principle in human
8、 nature is the craving to be appreciated.” He didnt speak of the “wish”or the“desire” or the “longing” to be appreciated. He said the “craving” to be appreciated.Obviously, the point and the final goal of everything we have done are to achieve self-value, being important and being appreciated. Every
9、 gratification made us look forward to next satisfaction and appreciation. Not only the philosophers in the history, the famous people in the world, but us now. We need to achieve ourselves, to become importance. The adversities and setbacks which we have been through and taught us to be stronger th
10、an before should pave the way to be feeling of importance.II. The motivations of people who desire the feeling of being important.I have already asked my fellows why they want to be important. Some persons said it was evolvement, God decided us to be like this. Some said that it was desire what drov
11、e us. We are longing for somebodys admiration and achieving our self-worth, even to be the limelight within the public. Thats our ordinary and common thoughts, isnt it?I have been told that Sigmund Freud had said generally that everything you and I do springs from two motivates: the sex urge and the
12、 desire to be great.But in my opinion, I want to add something to the desire to be great. Speak of the desire to be great, there are three branches of it. Firstly, in order to understand knowledges, master skills, elaborate and solve problems systematically on their own initiative, they aimed at the
13、 acquisition and the satisfaction of knowledge. We called this cognitive drive. Secondly, it just comes from your inner mind that you want scholastic achievements or the need of status and prestige. These kinds of persons have their eyes and minds fixed upon the position and vanity. We named this eg
14、o-enhancement drive. The last one is affiliated drive. This kind of person just focuses on the compliments from fellows, praises from teachers, and the commendations from their elders.But I think “motivation” is a neutral term. It has nothing to do with goodness and badness. In other words, whatever
15、 your target will cause, contribution or destruction, its all because the motivation. Everyone have their own ways to achieve goals and do what they firmly believe that was right way to be important.On May 7, 1931, the most sensational manhunt New York City had ever known had come to its climax. The
16、 police were looking for the “Two Gun” killer Crowley. Finally, he was at bay, trapped in his sweethearts apartment on West End Avenue. Over a hundred policemen and detectives laid siege to his top-floor hideaway, they smoked out Crowley with tear gas and mounted their machine guns. With the crack o
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